Good tidings for 2010

Here we are on 31 December, at the turn of yet another year. Every year, I marvel at how quickly time has flown by and this year is no exception. If you're like me, this is probably the day you do some reflection over what you have achieved, cringe a little over the mistakes you've made and hope that the clean slate for the following year brings something better.

As we ring in 2010, I pondered over what I would wish my readers and I came up with two.

For parents, I wish you wisdom. Wisdom to:

• know when to reign in and when to let go
• discern the difference between sufficient and excess
• know that the measure of a child is character, not exam scores
• realise that perfection is as bland (and fake) as a Stepford wife
• differentiate between your child's glory and your own glory
• see all things in perspective, and if not, friends who can show you the light

For children, I wish you a genuine heart. A heart that:

• is compassionate towards others and kind to self
• understands the value of diligence
• is upright without being uptight
• covets little and is grateful for much
• values the wisdom of parents... and overlooks the slips

A very happy New Year to all of you and may your cup of blessings runneth over in 2010!