These meetings are never good news. Here's some of the less than desirable feedback we received about Andre:
- He rushes through his work because his goal is to finish it quickly
- His English vocabulary is weak
- In English comprehension, he makes up answers not from the passage
- He's competitive but only in PE
- He doesn't file his work
- He was told to bring a set of files in Week 5, he eventually only brought them in Week 10
- He doesn't pay attention
- He plays in class
- His handwriting is so bad he confuses himself
- His pencil is always blunt
It was also heartening to learn that Andre is one of the stronger ones in maths in his class and his English is average (bearing in mind though his is not the most academically-inclined class). Basically, his biggest issue is his attitude - his lack of interest in his studies means he doesn't apply himself and he performs below his potential. But it was somewhat comforting to know that at least it's not a question of ability - it's a question of motivation.
The down side of having a teacher Andre likes is that he's not afraid of her and completely takes advantage of her sunny nature. But I discovered that he's not entirely unsympathetic to his teacher's predicament, as evidenced by this conversation we had in the car on the way to the meeting.
Andre: Miss xx works very hard.
Me: Why do you say that?
Andre: Because there are 44 pupils in the class and it's mostly boys.
Me: Why is it harder to teach boys?
Andre: You know.
Me (amused): I don't know, you tell me.
Andre: Talk lah, play lah.
Me: So you're one of them.
Andre: Yah lah!
Me: That's not nice. Since she's kind to you, you should pay attention and listen to her.
Andre: Ok. (pause) This year passed so fast, it's March already.
Me: That's right.
Andre: When the teacher is nice, time goes by very quickly!
High praise indeed. Andre has been truly blessed this year.
Hi! Stumbled upon your blog a while ago and I must say that I enjoy reading all your posts (took me the entire night!). Andre is such an endearing boy. Your posts on his English woes had me in stitches!
ReplyDeleteBy the way, have you considered sending him to Kumon? If he is already good at maths, he'll benefit a lot from the program as it helps him concentrate more. I think he'll enjoy the English program too.
Hey there Anon: happy to know you enjoy my blog! I've not considered Kumon cos I heard the math focuses on memory and speed work which I think Andre won't enjoy. But I've not heard feedback on the English at Kumon. Do your kids go there and how were the results?
ReplyDeleteI can't believe a teacher will complain about A's blunt pencil and not filing work!!! Aren't there more important things to focus on?
ReplyDeleteBut, way to go A...like I said before, finally a teacher that appreciates him :)
Hi!
ReplyDeleteIt's true to a certain extent that Kumon Maths focuses on speed and memory for the lower levels but this is to build their foundation to tackle higher level Maths. If Andre enjoys Math, he'll love the challenges and I think he'll be able to progress very fast.
My girl Iturning 5 this October) started Kumon English when she was about 3. Coupled with good reading habits fostered at home, her progress has been very fast as she's now doing Level C1 (equivalent to P3). She enjoys the stories. You can try asking at a centre near you and see if Andre likes it.
Andre seems very thoughtful and sweet in his conversation with you. I honestly believe Andre will perform when the time is right. I hope he remains as carefree as he is now for as long as possible.
ReplyDeleteBtw, 44 kids in 1 class??? 40 is already too much and they cramp in 4 more kids?
Eunice: I guess it's hard for the teacher to keep track of the work when he doesn't file and his writing is illegible due to blunt pencils :P
ReplyDeleteAnon: Thanks for the tip! I just might go check it out although I'm sure Andre will protest mightily at another tuition class...
Lilian: Yes, must admit Andre is very thoughtful when he actually bothers to think before he acts. Yah, 44 kids. What to do, same old issue of not enough teachers. After 30 kids in p1 and p2, it's really a big change.
Andre just exudes endearing charm!
ReplyDeleteAnd wow for his school. Maybe that's why that school is so good and nurturing! PTC! I wonder if other primary schools have that.
Cindy: I think most schools have PTCs in various forms. You'll get your turn next year! I'm sure Bryan will do just great though :)
ReplyDeleteMonica : Thanks for sharing again. Andre is a cool dude. Reading about him makes me laugh but he is also a sensitive little boy.
ReplyDeleteHe will peak at the right time:).
Cindy: Think all schools have PTC, PTM or Parent Conferencing Day (thats what they call it in Hannah's school and for her, its held twice a year. Once after the mid year exams and another after the final exams).